Peace and Detachment

You have the power to awaken and know Constant Integrated Awareness (Equanimity and Bliss). LiberatingTouch helps you reclaim your power and realise the SELF. By paying attention to your thoughts, breath and state of being you can choose to create shifts in vibration and perception.


When you are affected by stressful emotions and life becomes difficult, detachment is one of the ways to make life easier to live. Detachment allows us to live in the present, free to make empowered choices, to focus on harmony and avoid getting entangled in unnecessary drama and stress. It gives us clear vision, so even in the most challenging situations we are able to come from a place of power, inner confidence and peace.

Detachment is the most misunderstood concept of spirituality. Detachment can also be thought of as non-attachment. Non-attachment is when the mind and the senses are not affected by external circumstances, situations, desires and people. For e.g. we don't feel peace because we are either not getting what we want, or we are being triggered by people, circumstances and old conditioned belief systems. Detachment supports us in maintaining balance.

The mind

The mind obscures the Real Infinite Intuitive Self (Illumined SELF - I S), and therefore, the mind can be described as a veil. It is a veil of ignorance, which keeps you unaware of the magnificent presence of the SELF within you.

One of the first steps in knowing your true SELF is to understand the mind and teach it detachment. Just as removing the firewood from the fire automatically extinguishes the flame, removing the energetic links that bind the mind to desires, objects, habits and beliefs, automatically frees our awareness to experience the power of the SELF.

The Book

You can learn more about detachment in Eddie and Ranjana’s book, ‘DETACHMENT - The Secret to Infinite Peace’ available on Amazon Kindle (acommpanying audios below)

This book has been translated by Rosa Lopez into Portuguese -  Desapego - O Segredo da Paz Infinita  and is availabe on Amazon (acommpanying audios below)

Below you will find an exercise to help you cultivate detachment in the moment.

The Infinity Exercise

You may ask what is this exercise? Is it a manifesting tool? Is it a cleansing technique? Is it a clearing method? Is it for stress management? Is it for present moment awareness? Is it for flow? Is it a way to step into peace? Is it for conflict resolution? Is it to support you on the journey of Self-Realisation?  

It is for all of the above and so much more. It can help you find ease and relief with the day to day chores of everyday life. Support you in being present and accountable in challenging times with demanding  people. Help you be detached and discerning when you most need it. When you practise the infinity exercise, you may experience purity, and this leads to the awareness of divinity and the realisation of Unity.

The ‘Infinity Exercise’ is a part of the LiberatingTouch® Detachment Process. It is a visualisation technique, where you visualise or imagine that you are in one loop of a large ‘Infinity symbol’ and the object, symbol or person that you need to detach from is in the opposite loop of the ‘Infinity symbol’. You then visualise a ‘white serpent of light’ moving along the path of the ‘Infinity symbol’ (clockwise or counter-clockwise), looping around you and then looping around the ‘other’, as illustrated in the diagram above.

This one visualisation will help you to create space so that you can respond to any situation/person with clarity and strength. The use of the Infinity Exercise is colloquially referred to as "Infinitising".

As you do this your thoughts will create a vortex of energy spinning around you in one direction and spinning around the loop in front of you in the opposite direction. Physics tells us that objects spinning in opposite directions cannot come together but will pull apart. A vortex will also pull everything to its centre, just like water in a sink which spirals as it drains out. 

When we do this exercise, we are communicating to the subconscious, in symbolic language, to deprogram our attachment to the object, person or symbol in the loop opposite us. Therefore, the subconscious will free the energy locked in the conditioned process and allow us to reclaim our power. In effect, it is breaking the pattern of control (fear). The mind is extremely powerful and thoughts can manifest energetically (as you think so it becomes).

We all know how easy it is to get enmeshed in irate conversations, to be triggered by a remark, or to feel pressured. If in that moment, you remember to visualise, think, or even trace the Infinity symbol with your fingers, and imagine that you are in one loop, and the distressing/annoying/confusing issue/person is in the other loop; you can instantly create the breathing space you require to disengage from the story and take inspired action.

This exercise can be used whenever you feel that you are reacting to someone or something, even during a phone call, or when conversing with someone. All you have to do is put yourself in one loop of the Infinity symbol, and the person or object in the other loop and visualise the ‘white serpent of light’ going along the path of the ‘Infinity symbol’, till your reaction stops, or till you experience serenity.

You can infinitise (detach) from someone or something that makes you react negatively, or from that which you are trying to control, or from someone or something you are allowing to control you. This exercise draws all your scattered energy back to you, and similarly all the energy of the person, or challenge, back to itself in the other loop. This weakens the energetic links and allows you to meet any situation, person, addiction, or substance with understanding and compassion.

A few Infinity Shares 

It is my go to magic tool every time doubt starts to creep in or something or someone starts challenging me or when I realise the mental tape recorder has started to play …. Now I am going to use it on my addictions to food & unhealthy ways . Thank You for the Miracle symbol - Sharon 

I use the infinity for painful emotions that show up, hardships, for buying a new car, when travelling in a car, plane or going for a walk.

I use the infinity before I answer a phone call, emails, and text messages.

When I visited the hospital for my Mum and Michael, I was continuously infinitising.

In my work, before my clients come and after they leave.

In my clinic the infinity helps to clear the energy in the room I am working.

When I go shopping, to the theatre or watch a movie. It is my go-to!! - Anita 

I use it all the time with my 'yelling/ over talkative' cat, phone calls with significant people, emotions, physical projects/ challenges, pain, as well as just doing it without anything in mind! - Juliet

I’m prompted to use it mainly when I’m talking to someone ( in person or on the phone) who is starting to trigger a degree of anxiety in me. My tummy would start to feel a familiar ‘churning’ and I’d infinitise them. As soon as I get that churning I know I need to stay in my ‘zone’ or power. I’m so grateful for this tool. - Nanda

I wanted to share my infinitising experience this morning. Bella, my 2 year-old was off to her at home care and today her carer will be taking her to the church where they have music for kids for an hour. It’s her first time at the class without me and the carer asked if she could wear a pull up for her time at the class and she will take her to the toilet there. Bella does a poo every morning like clockwork and she has never done one in a pull up on the few occasions she’s worn one say in the car etc. I felt a bit worried then when no poo was on its way this morning. I knew she would need one after all her kiwifruit and porridge. Time was ticking on for me to leave to drop her off and I could feel myself getting stressed about it and I knew Bella would be feeling this too and maybe holding on. So I started to do the infinity on the stress, with Bella and I in one loop and the poo and stress in the other… Literally within 2 minutes she sat on the potty for a wee and a poo.

This was the fastest work with the infinity hehe!

I’ve been pondering today my experience with infinity recently and how it’s felt quite profoundly different from other times and I can’t help but feel that it’s been my focus and intention I’ve put behind them that’s shifted things with quite large magnitude. Previously, I would be doing the infinity but also doing other things in my busy mind too.

I can’t help but think how much more powerful are these tools when we really clear our mind, breathe properly and sit with focused intention? - Emma

I use it every day, almost on the hour for everything... from speaking to someone on the phone, to sleeping, to finding a parking space, to experiencing union with God etc. I have a super long list. 

I experience the infinity exercise as a way to shift my focus from separation (doing) and step into integrated awareness (perfection). The detachment process for me is a pathway to getting closer to unified consciousness - intimacy with God (Truth Goodness Beauty). - Ranjana

I use it for certain emotions, when they are at a greater intensity, some people or group, some event or trip. Deep down, it's always due to an underlying emotion: anger, sadness, dissatisfaction, worry... Infinity allows me to lessen the intensity and feel calmer and more at peace with myself. It brings me comfort and peace. - Marianna

I have a great story of asking at the Tree and infinitising that happened today.

I was packing up my car to drive up north and for some insane reason I put my new phone on the roof - my sister then came out to load up her cases etc so I got distracted - long story short I drove off with the phone still on the roof - about an hour into my drive my sister gets a message to say I was involved in a crash as a warning from my phone (she’s on my emergency contacts) it gives her a location - we check and it dawns on me my phone was on the roof - I immediately start drawing the infinity on my leg as we figure out from the time etc. where the phones landed - our friend from the Vyne goes out to look for it (she was a poorly lady too) I tugged on the ribbon and asked for the IS to keep my friend safe as it was a very busy road and to help her find the phone - after about half an hour of communications between us she not only finds it but it's also not damaged.

I was in a service station waiting for news from her and drawing the infinity with me in one side and my friend holding my phone in the other side praying for her to find it - this was on the A33 Reading road to the M4 - what was amazing was the phone hadn’t landed on this busy dual carriageway to be crushed by a lorry/car but right on the grass lay-by where she could pull over, she said she could see it sparkling in the dim light

Thank you God you really do work in mysterious ways! - 24 December 2023 

I wouldn’t be without using the infinity symbol - I use it when I’m driving, I use it when I’m seeing clients and I visualise it whilst I'm doing a session otherwise, I’m drawing it on my leg. It’s been a great asset that I continually tell my clients about and how to use it themselves.

Used it recently to help me throughout the Christmas festivities. Great when I’m with family members.

Good for tricky conversations - even when tackling phone contracts.

Basically, I can’t think of a time when I’m not using it (maybe when I’m sleeping)

To infinity and beyond - Donna 

Great Detachment Story - I put my house on the market in the beginning of April. We had 3 initial viewings, followed by 2 in the first month but then things tapered off and there was no interest for a few weeks. I checked in and received the guidance that over 17 years of staying here, I had created a powerful connection to my house energetically and I should do something to clear it. I immediately felt guided to do a LT detachment process to the house which I started recently.
The step 2 wording really helped clear all aspects of the journey of selling, especially the many emotions that come up with a project of  huge change.
After just 7 days I had an offer on the house!
It was from the people who had looked at the house 3 weeks previously and hadn’t even given any feedback!
We have counter offered and accepted the final offer today. Amazing! ️

PS. accepting the offer brought up some strong emotions. (It’s been a wild ride in this house. Both great memories and very challenging times). I am continuing the infinity excercise (and aim to compete step 3) to support me in this, to ensure all the stages of selling are completed. - Deborah 

The LT Detachment Process

The LiberatingTouch® Detachment Process creates an amazing healing space for the mind, so that we can detach from our stories, attitudes and addictions and experience clarity. Detachment is the secret of Infinite Peace. It endows us with the ability to live a life that is saturated with Love and Truth. Ranjana and Eddie have created the LiberatingTouch Detachment Process to help you experience life peacefully. The Detachment Process is probably the most well-known LiberatingTouch®  Process. It is easy to follow once you have read the book ‘DETACHMENT - The Secret to Infinite Peace’ or had a conversation with a LiberatingTouch Facilitator about the process. The video below is a condensed summary of the book - Detachment – The Secret to infinite Peace

The Detachment Process has 4 Steps

STEP 1 - Relax, Connect, and Ask

When something is tripping you up constantly, or when you feel something is affecting your life, or your relationships, and you want to be free of that distraction (obstacle), you do STEP 1 of the detachment process. In this step you listen to the guided visualisation and ask the Illumined Self, what you need to detach from. Trust the guidance. Go with the guidance.

Ask the Illumined-Self what to detach from. You can listen to the audio for Step 1 here:

Pergunte ao Eu Iluminado do que se desapegar. Você pode ouvir o áudio do Passo 1 aqui:

Step 1 Recorded by Angela

Step 1 Recorded by Ranjana

Passo 1 Processo do Desapego by Rosa

STEP 2 - Practice the Infinity Exercise

Then go to STEP 2 of the detachment process and use the infinity exercise for 2 weeks to help you lessen the energy of that obstacle. STEP 2 will help you begin the process of reclaiming your power.

Visualise the Infinity Exercise with the Finger Holds. Here is an audio for Step 2:  

Visualize o exercício do infinito com o Segurar dos Dedos. Aqui está um áudio para o Passo 2:

Step 2 Recorded by Angela

Step 2 Recorded by Ranjana

Passo 2 Processo do Desapego by Rosa

STEP 3 - Use the Detachment Visualisation

Next, do STEP 3 of the detachment process to remove the obstacle (release the trapped energy). This step is a guided visualisation.

This step will help you complete the process. Here is an audio for Step 3:  

Esta etapa o ajudará a concluir o Processo do Desapego. Aqui está um áudio para o Passo 3:

Step 3 Recorded by Angela

Step 3 Recorded by Ranjana

Passo 3 Processo do Desapego by Rosa

STEP 4 - Write the letter to the SELF

After this do STEP 4 to complete the detachment process and firmly convince your mind that you are free from that obstacle. In this step you write a letter to the Illumined Self and burn it. Offer the ashes with some water to a nearby Tree.

It is essential to write this letter in your own words. After you have written the letter, burn the letter, add some water to the ashes, and then pour the water and ashes at the base of a tree. 

É essencial escrever uma  carta com suas próprias palavras. Depois de escrever a carta, queime-a, adicione um pouco de água às cinzas e despeje a água e as cinzas na base de uma árvore.

It is VITAL to have either read the book ‘Detachment – The Secret of Infinite Peace and/or have this process explained to you by a LiberatingTouch® Facilitator before you embark on the Detachment journey. The Detachment process is powerful and the effect of becoming free from old conditioned negative tendencies can be disorienting.  Please make an appointment with a LiberatingTouch® Facilitator if you are new to the process.

Here is a link to the pdf with the 4 steps and three visualisation scripts

You can listen to a recording of Angela Kirk reading the book here <3

N.B. You can use the Infinity Exercise on its own, anytime, anywhere, any place to give you space when you are affected by negative emotions, or people. When you are caught in a particular behaviour, or tripping up constantly, being stressed by a situation over and over again, do the COMPLETE Detachment Process, starting with STEP 1, to find out what you need to detach from.

Once you teach the mind to detach...

At first the mind will resist any attempt to detach. It will refuse to let go of its stories, attachments and its thirst for control. Once it has tasted the freedom and peace that arises from detachment, the mind looks forward to the joy of non-attachment. A detached mind is patient, open, clear, and able to delight in the exquisite goodness and beauty of the SELF everywhere.